Week 3 – Hello Ladies - Last night in class, we addressed personal obstacles of the meanings of Persistency and Consistency. What is one your obstacles? how do you plan to address/resolve the same?
Here is Jairo Lemos Presentation sheet: Persistency is a noun that means the quality of being determined to do or achieve something, even when it's difficult or opposed by others. It can also be described as a type of determination and purpose. Persistence is a crucial trait for success. It involves the ability to continue pursuing goals, overcome obstacles, and adapt to challenges.
Consistency is a noun, which means always behaving or happening in a similar, especially positive, way. Consistency is the critical driver for success. Being consistent means dedicating yourself to your goals and staying focused on the things and activities to achieve them. However, it requires a long-term commitment and involves sustained effort in doing actions repeatedly until you achieve your target.
Think about something you are fearlessly persistent about. What makes you be so persistent? What makes you desire persistency?
Now, think about something you are always consistent with. What drives you to be consistent? What benefits does it bring you?
Here are some tips for developing persistence and consistency: • Set clear goals: Know what you want and make sure your goals are achievable. • Develop a plan: Create a flexible plan that you can adapt to, but always keep your goals in mind. • Celebrate small wins: Recognize and reward the progress you make. • Learn from setbacks: Use failures as a learning opportunity to strengthen your persistence. • Build a routine: Develop a mindset and routine that helps you stay consistent. • Be persistent: When obstacles arise, persistence helps you push through and persevere. • Be consistent: Consistency is about putting in the work every day and sticking to a routine.
My friend said this to me when we were chatting about struggling...she said look at how far you have come and not what you have left. I think that phrase fits well with what we're talking about.
My obstacles are my largest debts. My student loans and credit card debts. I am determined to decrease my debts and grow my coffers. My retirement fund and my emergency savings. I also want to save for a home. I'm going to do a budget and stock to it. I'll be persistent and consistent with it! I won't give up until I reach my goals. I will have a plan. If I get my legal settlement for an injury I received, I'll pay off my debts. If I get a raise, I'll put the raise amount in my retirement accounts. I can and will accomplish it.
Yes Sheila this mindset will absolutely get you to meet your goals. We just have to be disciplined with the boundaries we set for ourselves so that we can our hardworking payoff.
Homes are so expensive now that I really feel it's nearly impossible for a single woman to purchase a home by herself unless she has a business of her own, or some sort of financial reserve.
Homes are so expensive. If I were to buckle down, work 2 jobs, I think in 5 years I could buy a house, but it's now that I need to act. I'm not giving up and you shouldn't either.
I totally understand. The debt struggle is real, but you have a plan and are staying focused. Putting your raise into retirement and using a settlement to pay off debt are smart moves. Just stay on it, little by little, you're going to get there!
Sheila sure sounds like you have a good plan in place. I can relate to creating a budget as I struggle to understand that piece of money management. I've been more disorganized lately but I just need to be persistent.
Hi ladies hope everyone is having a good week so far. My obstacles are the debt that I have created for myself on top of the everyday costs that come with being an adult. I know that I am my own obstacle in some of the situations but I find it so mentally and emotionally exhausting and feeling stuck. So with that being said I have taken some steps to try and help. I have a second job as well as cutting back on many things like bringing my lunch daily and making breakfast at home. I also have been going through some of my items that aren’t being used and selling them. I’m getting older and would like to not stress over financial matters.
Keep on going. You are making sacrifices now. But in old age you'll reap the consequences. What we do now will shape how we retire and live later on.we can do it. You keep plugging. You can do it.
I hear you Amy, you're putting in the work. Don't let that feeling of being stuck hold You down, because you're already moving in the right direction! That debt is a beast, for real, but you're handling your business with the second job and the cuts that you're making. Bringing your own food and selling your old stuff that's a step and a major move. You're not an obstacle, Your solution. You already have a game plan. Keep your eyes on the prize. That's the dream, and you're putting in the work to make it happen. -Nija
Not sure if I have this correct, but I think that most of us feel that each of us has created ourselves as an obstacle. My perspective is that we make decisions based upon our knowledge then. This class is an education that will help me look at circumstances differently and positively. What I see is that you already have persistency in your tool box and with that will bring positive results in reaching your goals.
Success isn't always about greatness. It's about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. - Dwayne Johnson. I am proud of each and everyone of you ladies. You set your mindset into completing this journey and expanding your worth of knowledge at the same time. That is what persistency and consistency is all about. You got this!
That's so true, success is all about how we show up every day for ourselves, putting in the work and staying consistent. Thank you for the encouragement. We all have to push ourselves to grow and keep leveling up. it feels good to be surrounded by people get it. -Nija
In the past I was consistent with going to the gym and challenging myself physically. Then I lost sight of that and put weight back on. What drove me to be consistent was fitting back into the clothes in my closet. Exercise is an action of self care. Now I am looking to not only exercise for my health but also apply determination in the management of my finances instead of feeling lost at times.
We absolutely can lose sight of what motivates us, for may reasons. What’s important is getting back on that train and working towards the end goal. You will do it!
Hi again- I left a comment here but then realized it never posted!
I was saying that I feel like I am consistent with things, however something that I know I lack is sometimes I get overwhelmed with my responsibilities being one person, then I can go a full day (or two) without responding back to people or doing the work that I know needs to be done just so I can take time to myself. I am grateful to be in a position where I actively have things to do that will improve my life.. I only wish I had more support because it can really impact me at times.
We are here for you also. You can accomplish your goals. We will support each other. And celebrate the small victories. Don't dwell on the past. This new you, today, can accomplish anything. Stay positive. We will champion you also!
This hit me deep. You literally are holding it down 24/7, trying to do everything as just one person and you get overwhelmed and it hits you like a brick wall. I am usually there everyday so I totally understand. People always tell me you can't pour from an empty cup. Taking a whole day or two and ghost people to get your mind right it's not being lazy, that's a survival mode. You have a lot of important things on your plate. The kind of things that are going to make you level up in life, so don't feel bad for pressing the pause button to breathe. I know it's easier said than done, I'm in the same boat. When you say you need more support, we all need that village. But listen, you are out here grinding and you're grateful for your opportunities and you're making big moves. Keep doing what you have to do to protect your peace. We are all in this together, let us be part of your village. -Nija
My biggest obstacle is credit card debt, when I am short I go to the credit cards. If someone in the family needs something i go to the credit cards. My resolution is to start paying off the small ones then use that money to go down the line to pay them all down ant then completely.
That credit card debt is annoying. I hear you, that plastic is too easy to slide if it's available, especially if a family needs a handout. I myself had to pay for my mother's funeral on seven different credit cards and Max them all out. And when that wasn't enough, I had to reach into my 403b to take the remaining out. It's like a trap that keeps calling your name. But you have a game plan, and it's smart. It works if you're consistent with it. Keep on that focus. Getting those paid off completely is a goal, so you can stop being everybody's atm. You got this! - Nija
Wilma I’m in the same boat. I was doing great for a little bit then somehow this summer. I can’t get out of the hole I dug for myself. I’m trying so hard to get back into a position where I can pay down the debt. I’ve been selling things that I don’t use and saying no to a lot of invitations to hangout. Not to mention a lot of other things that I’m changing to not spend money on. We will get there with consistency. We got this!
Hello Ladies, One of my biggest obstacles when it comes to persistence is trying to hold it all together as a mom and a wife. I have five boys, and every day is a battle between making sure they're straight, handling responsibilities, and still trying to show up as this loving, patient, happy person. It's exhausting. I feel like I'm drowning some days. But I keep going because I love my kids and my husband more than anything. They are my reason, even though I feel like I have nothing left to give. But I'm not going to lie, sometimes I want to be selfish, take a break, and do something for myself without feeling guilty. But it's hard. Real hard. Moms don't really get days off, especially when you're trying to raise good men and not just keep them alive. That's why I'm working on giving myself grace. I don't have to be perfect every day, but if I keep showing up, that's a start. As for consistency, I do my best to keep the house in order, stay on top of school, and handle business. Even when I'm tired, I feel like crying, I get up and do what I have to do, just like everybody else. I know if I don't, nobody else is going to do it for me. What drives me is knowing that my boys are watching me. I want them to grow up and see what strength and love look like, even when life's a mess. -Nija
You are amazing. Learn to take a day or a moment for yourself. You deserve it. It's hard to do I know. But you don't want to burn out. I've had burnout and it's not fun.
Thank you so much, you're so sweet. You're right, I do need to take time for myself. Burnouts is a real thing, and I I think I'm already there. lol. I'll try to slow down and take those moments when I can. I appreciate the love and advice.
Nija you absolutely deserve the world and you should show up for yourself the way you show up for your family. My boys are big now but when they were younger and I would feel the way you do, I would do little things that didn’t cost me a thing.maybe get a good book park by the water and read for a little or just listen to some music while watching the beauty of nature by the river. There are so many things that you can do to to show yourself the love you give to your family. I hope you make some alone time. I’ve always said a happy mom makes even happier children. 🫶🏾
Hey guys, i am trying my best to be persistent with all my goals and wants in life. Lol but the main ones I am working on now are, completing my schooling a.k.a get my GED and continue my education at college. I want to help the homeless, the addicted and mental health. Another one of my close goals is, my wls coming up on October 22..I start my special diet on Oct 12 and I want to make it thru that and the anxiety of getting surgery and get it done successfully.
I had WLS back in 2019, and it was an opener and game-changer for me. You're off to a great start with your schooling, getting your GED, and heading to college, that's a really big move. Keep pushing, you're giving yourself the tools to live a healthier and smarter life, keep going! -Nija
You've come a long way, my hope is that you give yourself credit for the obstacles that have come your way. I feel like persistency can be hard to initiate but sticking with something that is personally important such as decreasing debt will be liberating.
Oh you did?! Was it in done with hartford hospital? My surgeon is dr.tishler, if you heard of him. Im super excited and ready for this. I figured I gotta start somewhere! Lol
Thank you holly!! Sometimes I really need someone else to remind me how far I've come! It can be super hard to start, yoire right! But once you get it done it feels so good! So satisfying
Hello everyone! One of my Personal obstacles is my debt.. I have been more intentional about paying it down..I have put the cards up, and learning to stick to the budget. It’s been challenging to walk away from a good sale.lol
Girl, I feel you , debt can get overwhelming at times, but the fact that you're putting in the work and paying it down, that right there is a major step in the right direction. Putting the cards up is a smart move, and I know when sales are calling your name, it's difficult to walk away from it, especially if it's something that you need. We have to stay strong, and times like that, it's all about the long-term goals that you had in your presentation. Keep grinding, you got this! -NIja
Good Evening ladies I'm just tuning in one of my personal things is really getting my credit paid off fully and not using my 2 credit cards frequently the fees are outrageous
Good morning Rochelle yes set some goals that will be easy to follow. The good things is that we have some very helpful tools that can help us achieve them. You got this!
Here is Jairo Lemos Presentation sheet:
ReplyDeletePersistency is a noun that means the quality of being determined to do or achieve something, even when it's difficult or opposed by others. It can also be described as a type of determination and purpose. Persistence is a crucial trait for success. It involves the ability to continue pursuing goals, overcome obstacles, and adapt to challenges.
Consistency is a noun, which means always behaving or happening in a similar, especially positive, way. Consistency is the critical driver for success. Being consistent means dedicating yourself to your goals and staying focused on the things and activities to achieve them. However, it requires a long-term commitment and involves sustained effort in doing actions repeatedly until you achieve your target.
Think about something you are fearlessly persistent about. What makes you be so persistent? What makes you desire persistency?
Now, think about something you are always consistent with. What drives you to be consistent? What benefits does it bring you?
Here are some tips for developing persistence and consistency:
• Set clear goals: Know what you want and make sure your goals are achievable.
• Develop a plan: Create a flexible plan that you can adapt to, but always keep your goals in mind.
• Celebrate small wins: Recognize and reward the progress you make.
• Learn from setbacks: Use failures as a learning opportunity to strengthen your persistence.
• Build a routine: Develop a mindset and routine that helps you stay consistent.
• Be persistent: When obstacles arise, persistence helps you push through and persevere.
• Be consistent: Consistency is about putting in the work every day and sticking to a routine.
Thank you for sharing this!
DeleteThe very thing that drives my consistency is the desire for a better life for my son and I.
DeleteShianne, keep going. You will accom0lish if you keep going!
DeleteThank you
DeleteMy friend said this to me when we were chatting about struggling...she said look at how far you have come and not what you have left. I think that phrase fits well with what we're talking about.
DeleteMy obstacles are my largest debts. My student loans and credit card debts. I am determined to decrease my debts and grow my coffers. My retirement fund and my emergency savings. I also want to save for a home. I'm going to do a budget and stock to it. I'll be persistent and consistent with it! I won't give up until I reach my goals. I will have a plan. If I get my legal settlement for an injury I received, I'll pay off my debts. If I get a raise, I'll put the raise amount in my retirement accounts. I can and will accomplish it.
ReplyDeleteYes Sheila this mindset will absolutely get you to meet your goals. We just have to be disciplined with the boundaries we set for ourselves so that we can our hardworking payoff.
DeleteHomes are so expensive now that I really feel it's nearly impossible for a single woman to purchase a home by herself unless she has a business of her own, or some sort of financial reserve.
DeleteHomes are so expensive. If I were to buckle down, work 2 jobs, I think in 5 years I could buy a house, but it's now that I need to act. I'm not giving up and you shouldn't either.
DeleteYou got this :)
DeleteI totally understand. The debt struggle is real, but you have a plan and are staying focused. Putting your raise into retirement and using a settlement to pay off debt are smart moves. Just stay on it, little by little, you're going to get there!
DeleteSheila sure sounds like you have a good plan in place. I can relate to creating a budget as I struggle to understand that piece of money management. I've been more disorganized lately but I just need to be persistent.
DeleteHi ladies hope everyone is having a good week so far. My obstacles are the debt that I have created for myself on top of the everyday costs that come with being an adult. I know that I am my own obstacle in some of the situations but I find it so mentally and emotionally exhausting and feeling stuck. So with that being said I have taken some steps to try and help. I have a second job as well as cutting back on many things like bringing my lunch daily and making breakfast at home. I also have been going through some of my items that aren’t being used and selling them. I’m getting older and would like to not stress over financial matters.
ReplyDeleteKeep on going. You are making sacrifices now. But in old age you'll reap the consequences. What we do now will shape how we retire and live later on.we can do it. You keep plugging. You can do it.
DeleteI can relate I need to be more disciplined in bringing lunch from home or at least meal prep for the week.
DeleteI hear you Amy, you're putting in the work. Don't let that feeling of being stuck hold You down, because you're already moving in the right direction! That debt is a beast, for real, but you're handling your business with the second job and the cuts that you're making. Bringing your own food and selling your old stuff that's a step and a major move. You're not an obstacle, Your solution. You already have a game plan. Keep your eyes on the prize. That's the dream, and you're putting in the work to make it happen.
Delete-Nija
Not sure if I have this correct, but I think that most of us feel that each of us has created ourselves as an obstacle. My perspective is that we make decisions based upon our knowledge then. This class is an education that will help me look at circumstances differently and positively. What I see is that you already have persistency in your tool box and with that will bring positive results in reaching your goals.
DeleteI am working very hard to make all the write decisions. Thank you all for the kind words and support!
DeleteSuccess isn't always about greatness. It's about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. - Dwayne Johnson. I am proud of each and everyone of you ladies. You set your mindset into completing this journey and expanding your worth of knowledge at the same time. That is what persistency and consistency is all about. You got this!
ReplyDeleteIts not how much we have left to do, its how far we've came as a person woman ect
DeleteThat's so true, success is all about how we show up every day for ourselves, putting in the work and staying consistent. Thank you for the encouragement. We all have to push ourselves to grow and keep leveling up. it feels good to be surrounded by people get it.
Delete-Nija
In the past I was consistent with going to the gym and challenging myself physically. Then I lost sight of that and put weight back on. What drove me to be consistent was fitting back into the clothes in my closet. Exercise is an action of self care. Now I am looking to not only exercise for my health but also apply determination in the management of my finances instead of feeling lost at times.
DeleteWe absolutely can lose sight of what motivates us, for may reasons. What’s important is getting back on that train and working towards the end goal. You will do it!
DeleteHi again- I left a comment here but then realized it never posted!
ReplyDeleteI was saying that I feel like I am consistent with things, however something that I know I lack is sometimes I get overwhelmed with my responsibilities being one person, then I can go a full day (or two) without responding back to people or doing the work that I know needs to be done just so I can take time to myself. I am grateful to be in a position where I actively have things to do that will improve my life.. I only wish I had more support because it can really impact me at times.
We are here for you also. You can accomplish your goals. We will support each other. And celebrate the small victories. Don't dwell on the past. This new you, today, can accomplish anything. Stay positive. We will champion you also!
DeleteThis hit me deep. You literally are holding it down 24/7, trying to do everything as just one person and you get overwhelmed and it hits you like a brick wall. I am usually there everyday so I totally understand. People always tell me you can't pour from an empty cup. Taking a whole day or two and ghost people to get your mind right it's not being lazy, that's a survival mode. You have a lot of important things on your plate. The kind of things that are going to make you level up in life, so don't feel bad for pressing the pause button to breathe. I know it's easier said than done, I'm in the same boat. When you say you need more support, we all need that village. But listen, you are out here grinding and you're grateful for your opportunities and you're making big moves. Keep doing what you have to do to protect your peace. We are all in this together, let us be part of your village.
Delete-Nija
My biggest obstacle is credit card debt, when I am short I go to the credit cards. If someone in the family needs something i go to the credit cards. My resolution is to start paying off the small ones then use that money to go down the line to pay them all down ant then completely.
ReplyDeleteYou can do it! Keep going.
DeleteThat credit card debt is annoying. I hear you, that plastic is too easy to slide if it's available, especially if a family needs a handout. I myself had to pay for my mother's funeral on seven different credit cards and Max them all out. And when that wasn't enough, I had to reach into my 403b to take the remaining out. It's like a trap that keeps calling your name. But you have a game plan, and it's smart. It works if you're consistent with it. Keep on that focus. Getting those paid off completely is a goal, so you can stop being everybody's atm. You got this!
Delete- Nija
Wilma I’m in the same boat. I was doing great for a little bit then somehow this summer. I can’t get out of the hole I dug for myself. I’m trying so hard to get back into a position where I can pay down the debt. I’ve been selling things that I don’t use and saying no to a lot of invitations to hangout. Not to mention a lot of other things that I’m changing to not spend money on. We will get there with consistency. We got this!
DeleteHello Ladies,
ReplyDeleteOne of my biggest obstacles when it comes to persistence is trying to hold it all together as a mom and a wife. I have five boys, and every day is a battle between making sure they're straight, handling responsibilities, and still trying to show up as this loving, patient, happy person. It's exhausting. I feel like I'm drowning some days. But I keep going because I love my kids and my husband more than anything. They are my reason, even though I feel like I have nothing left to give. But I'm not going to lie, sometimes I want to be selfish, take a break, and do something for myself without feeling guilty. But it's hard. Real hard. Moms don't really get days off, especially when you're trying to raise good men and not just keep them alive. That's why I'm working on giving myself grace. I don't have to be perfect every day, but if I keep showing up, that's a start.
As for consistency, I do my best to keep the house in order, stay on top of school, and handle business. Even when I'm tired, I feel like crying, I get up and do what I have to do, just like everybody else. I know if I don't, nobody else is going to do it for me.
What drives me is knowing that my boys are watching me. I want them to grow up and see what strength and love look like, even when life's a mess.
-Nija
You are amazing. Learn to take a day or a moment for yourself. You deserve it. It's hard to do I know. But you don't want to burn out. I've had burnout and it's not fun.
DeleteThank you so much, you're so sweet. You're right, I do need to take time for myself. Burnouts is a real thing, and I I think I'm already there. lol. I'll try to slow down and take those moments when I can. I appreciate the love and advice.
DeleteNija you absolutely deserve the world and you should show up for yourself the way you show up for your family. My boys are big now but when they were younger and I would feel the way you do, I would do little things that didn’t cost me a thing.maybe get a good book park by the water and read for a little or just listen to some music while watching the beauty of nature by the river. There are so many things that you can do to to show yourself the love you give to your family. I hope you make some alone time. I’ve always said a happy mom makes even happier children. 🫶🏾
DeleteHey guys, i am trying my best to be persistent with all my goals and wants in life. Lol but the main ones I am working on now are, completing my schooling a.k.a get my GED and continue my education at college. I want to help the homeless, the addicted and mental health. Another one of my close goals is, my wls coming up on October 22..I start my special diet on Oct 12 and I want to make it thru that and the anxiety of getting surgery and get it done successfully.
ReplyDeleteI had WLS back in 2019, and it was an opener and game-changer for me. You're off to a great start with your schooling, getting your GED, and heading to college, that's a really big move. Keep pushing, you're giving yourself the tools to live a healthier and smarter life, keep going!
Delete-Nija
You've come a long way, my hope is that you give yourself credit for the obstacles that have come your way. I feel like persistency can be hard to initiate but sticking with something that is personally important such as decreasing debt will be liberating.
DeleteOh you did?! Was it in done with hartford hospital? My surgeon is dr.tishler, if you heard of him. Im super excited and ready for this. I figured I gotta start somewhere! Lol
DeleteThank you holly!! Sometimes I really need someone else to remind me how far I've come!
DeleteIt can be super hard to start, yoire right! But once you get it done it feels so good! So satisfying
Hello everyone!
ReplyDeleteOne of my Personal obstacles is my debt.. I have been more intentional about paying it down..I have put the cards up, and learning to stick to the budget. It’s been challenging to walk away from a good sale.lol
Girl, I feel you , debt can get overwhelming at times, but the fact that you're putting in the work and paying it down, that right there is a major step in the right direction. Putting the cards up is a smart move, and I know when sales are calling your name, it's difficult to walk away from it, especially if it's something that you need. We have to stay strong, and times like that, it's all about the long-term goals that you had in your presentation. Keep grinding, you got this!
Delete-NIja
Quanna you got this. You have already gotten off on the right foot by being intentional.
DeleteGood Evening ladies I'm just tuning in one of my personal things is really getting my credit paid off fully and not using my 2 credit cards frequently the fees are outrageous
ReplyDeleteGood morning Rochelle yes set some goals that will be easy to follow. The good things is that we have some very helpful tools that can help us achieve them. You got this!
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